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Holiday visits with your loved one in prison

prison visits over the holidays

The holiday season is an opportunity to reconnect with your loved ones and create long-lasting memories. From reliving family traditions to creating new memories, the holidays offer the special chance for you to come together and strengthen the unique bond only found in a family. As special as the holidays are, it is that much more challenging for families with a loved one who is incarcerated. 

Visiting someone in prison during the holidays can be a challenging but meaningful experience. Visiting a loved one behind bars requires adherence to the rules and regulations set by the prison authorities. Despite the restrictions that come with a prison visit, there is no better time to visit your loved one. Here’s a guide on how to navigate holiday visits in prison:

Check Visitation Policies:

  • Before planning a holiday visit, familiarize yourself with the prison’s visitation policies. Rules regarding scheduling, dress code, allowed items, and identification requirements can vary among institutions.

Schedule the Visit:

  • Prisons typically have specific visiting hours and procedures. Ensure you schedule your visit during the approved times. Some facilities may require advance notice or reservations, especially during holidays when visitation may be in high demand.


Dress Appropriately:

  • Prisons usually have strict dress codes. Avoid clothing that resembles inmate attire and adhere to any specific guidelines provided by the facility. Dressing modestly and conservatively is often required. See more about dress rules.
family time in prison

Bring Approved Items:

  • Check the prison’s list of approved items to bring during visits. This may include identification, a small amount of money for vending machines, and specific items for infants if applicable.

Be Mindful of Gift Policies:

  • Some prisons may have restrictions on the types and amounts of gifts you can bring. Confirm the gift policy in advance, and avoid bringing items that are prohibited.

Arrive Early:

  • Security procedures can take time, so plan to arrive early. This allows for any unexpected delays and ensures you make the most of your visitation time.

Respect Rules and Regulations:

  • Follow all rules and regulations during the visit. Failure to comply may result in the termination of your visit or future restrictions.

Emotional Preparation:

  • Visiting a loved one in prison during the holidays can be emotionally charged. Prepare yourself for the potential emotional impact and be supportive of your loved one. It’s essential to maintain a positive attitude and focus on the time you have together.

Create a Connection:

  • Despite the challenges, strive to create a meaningful connection during your visit. Share positive news, memories, and encouragement. Consider bringing photos or small mementos to make the visit more personal.
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Plan for Future Visits:

  • If possible, discuss and plan for future visits. Having a schedule of visits can provide both you and your loved one with something to look forward to and can help maintain a sense of connection.

Remember that each prison may have its own unique set of rules, so it’s crucial to contact the specific facility and gather all the necessary information before planning a holiday visit. Additionally, maintaining open communication with your loved one and offering support can make a significant difference during this challenging time.